so you know that moment when you realize someone just isnt who they used to be? i never thought it’d be a bigger deal than a realization. idk if thats exactly what i mean, im not sure how to say it. but ive never been so bent out of shape about missing the old someone. it hurts to think my relationship is over, and i feel like i won’t be happy unless i’m with him, but seeing who he’s trying to be, or maybe who hes become outside of a relationship really makes me question if i wanna be with him. its not attractive. the way he’s acting i mean. but at what point is it no longer acting? like how am i supposed to decipher when you’re tryna be cool versus when you’re being real? i just wanna be over it, but i cant stop thinking about it. im just conflicted. i dont wanna be single. i dont wanna be with anyone else. i dont wanna start over. i dont wanna build up trust with a new person. i dont wanna go through the process of getting to know every part of someone. i dont want to feel like im a stranger in my relationship, or that im with a stranger. i just dont want anything but what i had. its not fair that one person gets to make a decison that has to do with two. at the end of the day an agreement needs to be what things settle in; how you making a decision on MY behalf? if we’re a union we come together and figure things out.

Question! lol I was looking through the VSU tags on tumblr (just to see what I would find) .. and I stumbled across your page. That is like my 2nd choice school, and being that you used to go there I was wondering if you would mind listing some pros x cons of the university? :) —Anonymous

I’m sorry if I’m really lateeeee I haven’t been on here in a while…come back & write me again if you still need this answered cuz I’m sure you’ve already started school lol

How was it getting your back dimples pierced? can you tell me all about it , im thinking of getting them. —teddybearsandcandy

hey I have no idea when you sent this cuz I haven’t been on here for a while, but hopefully I can still help. it hurt but like, nothing crazy. everything is a little painful. the way it works is they cut a little incision for the dermal to go in and press that part in. it definitely hurts but that’s not the end lol. the jewelry is what can be changed since it’s a microdermal, so the first part is literally just them getting the dermal into your skin. they have to twist & press the jewelry onto the dermal next & that’s what hurt more to me cuz it kind of had a sting to it. they do everything one at a time but it’s so quick. nowwww onto the other stuff. if it’s a good piercer, they’ll tell you it’s really not a good piercing to get cuz it rejects very easy so it’s almost a waste of money..it could reject at any time, within days, months, years, it just depends on your body. I wanted it for years and finally got the courage up to do it so I just went through with it. the same goes for getting em on your hips, anywhere that has a lot of joint movement can push it out of place. hope this helped!